This post is dedicated to a very special friend of mine. She will go nameless. We had a conversation today about how to show a guy without actually telling a guy that you have zero interest in him. Importantly though, in her case there is a lot at stake since she is doing her best to secure a business relationship from this guy’s company and he is doing his best to secure a relationship where he is hoping to start digging into her garden of Eden, in blatant terms he wants a sexual relationship and she wants to keep her distance yet still be able to take his money and work with him on the business side. She asked me specifically how do I let this guy down yet at the same time accomplish my goal of working with him? The answer’s are clear and simple how she got into this mess. She broke all the rules below.

Most women do not understand the fundamentals, they probably have read several books and have talked to their friends about how to get what you want out of a guy without actually giving anything in return. They think that they could set the course of the relationship and just tell the guy ” let’s just be friends” and they think that he will buy that. Then they get the dooms day text message at 7:30 PM at night asking them to come out to a concert and they have no clue on how to respond. The rules below should be followed specifically when going to a business meeting with a guy who you just want to handle non-sexual business with.

1. Never Text Message or Call or speak or Email any guy after 7 O Clock PM that you have zero interest in. Guy’s minds work differently then women we aren’t complicated logic is simple to us if you text us after 7 we think that you have a thing for us. A light bulb goes off in our head and then we go into hunting mode.

2. Never hang out with a guy you have no interest in ALONE. If you have zero sexual interest in a guy never ask him to hang out alone. I kind of think this is common sense.

3. Do not encourage sexual analogies, which means do not bring up sex in any way shape or form. Some girls love to talk about sex because it is on their minds often but they don’t necessarily think before they talk. This is a no and can get you in deep trouble. Only talk about sex if you are interesting in the possibility of having sex with that individual. This rule is pretty basic.

4. Do not overly touch or bump or come in contact when together. Do not feel muscles or any of that. Another very basic rule if you get to close the nuclear reactor might go off so keep your distance.

5. Dress is very important when you meet this guy who you don’t have any sexual attraction to. I recommend no high heels and no bright colors. High heels hurt your feet yet are very sexy, to a guy who picks up on the little things if you wear high heels then you are going out of your way just look sexy in his eyes. Light colors aren’t professional they offer a bright atmosphere in your relationship and open up doors of possibilities besides just your goal of handling business.

6. No Facebook and or Myspace contacting recommended. Guys see women as trophies if you post on a guys wall on Facebook. He is automatically going to think that you are attracted to him. I know this might be hard to understand but as a guy we need to look like pimps in front of our friends and when you post on our Facebook Walls and do stuff in the public viewing this only enhances our thoughts of you liking us and this only boasts our egos to greater levels.

7. Absolutely no alcohol drinking should be drunk when you meet this Mr. Unattractive. Alcohol takes away and lowers your awareness levels and also physiologically in the guys mind turns the situation into something other than a business meeting. Guys equate women drinking alcohol with nightclubs, bars, and strippers. You don’t want to open this can of worms and you also want to be on your “A” game at all times.

8. This might seem weird but laugh as little as humanly possible. When you laugh at a guy’s joke this automatically makes him that much more attractive to you because in his eyes you are crazy fun chick to be around. Keep the laughing at a minimum and he will get so bored with you that he will never ask you to hang out again and instead only use you for business purposes.

9. Do not engage in any talks about prior or past relationships. This is obvious do not make him aware of these thoughts as once you mention relationships he starts thinking about ways he could seduce you without getting in a relationship with you. Before you know then you are on booty call level.

10. Do mention the “kids” as last resort even if you don’t have any. This is a deal killer for any guy. For some reason they are scared straight of kids being involved in any of their risky business. If they ask you to hang out or something just casually says I have to pickup my kid from soccer practice and this has a tendency to kill all attraction immediately.

Even though I am not a female, I don’t drink alcohol when I go out with a girl that I truly like and I am a very in-depth observer of tendency’s and body language. I also try my best to listen to everything that is told to me as most of my questions that I have she has already answered.

I base these posts on the sign’s women have gave to me when they have zero interest in me. I hope you read this post carefully.